My Teenage Boys
I have 14- and 13-year old boys.
I am not really the emotional type but when my eldest turned 13, I found myself waxing sentimental. I suddenly remembered myself and my wife as new parents then. The happiness was inexplicable!
I find pride and joy watching them go through childhood - going to school, making friends, taking up sports.
It's only a few years til they are on their own. I wonder, how do I make the best out of the next few years together? Here are some of my ideas that you may also want to adopt:
Arcade Games
We enjoy battling each other out in arcade games. Lucky for me, they still enjoy playing with me. I am actually thinking of getting our own air hockey table so we can play at home. If you are also considering it, read more here.
hiking
I have always loved the outdoors. I know that at their age, physical activity is of utmost importance. I might ask them to join me in a hike and see if they will enjoy it too. It would be a good bonding activity and an opportunity to have light or serious conversations along the way.
campfire
When they were younger, they enjoyed camping in the backyard with their friends. I am thinking that we can revive the practice, spending some quiet time under the stars. I like creating opportunities to talk because I want them to be comfortable sharing their thoughts and plans with me.
PROJECTS
I want them to be more present in my socio-civic activities and be more involved in volunteering for worthwhile causes. Aside from being a bonding activity, I hope that it will also make them socially responsible adults.
I am excited to start on any or all of these!
